Sexuality is an important topic for an empath and all sensitive people to get clear about whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship.Empaths Survival GuideAs I discuss in “The Empath’s Survival Guide,” there is no such thing as casual sex for empaths. During lovemaking, energies combine. We can pick up both anxiety and joy from our sexual partner, and often get intuitions about his or her thoughts and feelings. Therefore, choose your partners wisely. Otherwise, during lovemaking, you can absorb toxic energy, stress, or fear. This is particularly true if you are a sexual empath.What is a sexual empath? Someone whose empathic abilities intensify during an erotic encounter so that he or she senses more stress or bliss from a partner. Sexual empaths are highly sensitive during lovemaking (and flirting too). They can pick up a partner’s energy even more than other empaths can. For all empaths (especially the sexual type) to feel their best, they must share physical intimacy with the right person who can reciprocate love and respect.Unfortunately, some of my empath patients have made mistakes when they’ve been without a partner for a long time. If someone comes along who sparks their sexuality, they are so eager to enter a relationship, they ignore intuitive warning signs. So they engage in a sexual relationship early on with a person who’s a poor choice. They fear that because it has taken so long to find someone who is even remotely interesting, they’d better get involved despite the intuitive red flags. We open ourselves to hurt by become overly attached to unavailable people who can’t love us back. One empath told me, “I haven’t been in a serious relationship for five years, but when I’ve dated men who I was fast and furious in love with, I turned into this love- crazed person. I didn’t listen to the warning signs and was disappointed. But now, I go slower to make sure the person is available.”One solution to simply waiting for a partner to show up is attending a tantra workshop or having private sessions with a tantric teacher. Tantra is an ancient practice that combines sexuality and spirituality via body-centered exercises. In private or group situations, you will be taught to tune into your body, tap into your sexual and spiritual energies, and work through old traumas, destructive relationship patterns, or numbness that stops you from feeling. These sessions increase your sexual energy and keep it flowing to maximize your powers of attraction rather than allowing this energy to go dormant during the waiting period. Others may not feel how sexy you are if that happens.